![]() ![]() Now go get it.But what is at the root of this shift in the mindset of your employees? And is quiet quitting really a negative crisis that employers have to somehow solve? Or, can you find a way to work with-and benefit from-this workplace trend?įind out below what quiet quitting is-and perhaps more importantly, what it’s not-and learn about the implications of the movement for your business. It’s okay to quit some things, or a lot of things, if you’re like me. You deserve your dream life. ![]() But it’s important to keep assessing your life and see if you want to continue choosing what you chose in the past. I’m not advocating that everyone go out and quit their jobs today. I quit because I wanted better for myself, because I know I deserve it, and because I wanted to. But I think I am more proud of the times I have taken a leap. I am proud of the times in my life that I have showed perseverance and gotten through something tough. When you say “no” to something that’s not right for you, you are allowing yourself to say “yes” to the things that are. I told myself that I didn’t have time to work on my “passion projects.” I decided to make my whole life a passion project and in order to do that, I needed to create space by clearing out what’s not working. It’s easy to make excuses when you have a day job. I have been dreaming of starting my own businesses, working for myself, and living a more creative lifestyle for years. Quitting creates space for something better.Īh, the possibilities. As you learn to make decisions for yourself, you will become more and more confident in yourself. You don’t always need to follow the crowd. You learn to trust your own judgment and your ability to deal with difficult situations. When you stand up for what you believe in and make bold life choices, it increases your self-confidence. If you’re no longer engaged in your work, it’s time for a change. But sticking it out just for the sake of it? Not something I believe in. It’s expected that you won’t enjoy every minute it’s called hard work for a reason. Sticking it out is great-if you still believe in the goal and enjoy the work. I think perseverance is a trait that we tend to over-value. I left so that I could continue growing on my path to being a kind, generous person who lives according to my values. The academic, competitive environment wasn’t teaching me how to be a version of myself that I wanted to be. This was a big reason I left a PhD program that I was enrolled in. Life is constant change, and we are always growing (whether we admit it or not). I am learning to be the best version of myself. Following your heart is totally okay-you deserve it. If you’re not enjoying your life (the everyday, mundane parts), then something needs to change. You are allowed to enjoy your life! Actually, I would encourage it. These are the reasons I am proud to be a “quitter”: 1. I accepted that my current situation was hurting my health. It’s all possible with a bit of planning. I still need to pay my rent, buy food, and provide for my companion animals. That’s not to say there won’t be consequences. You need to do what’s right for you. As I see it, it’s a strong decision to take a step that supports your health and well-being. Friends and family mean well, but they are not the ones living your life. It’s easy to let outside sources sway your decisions. The job that I recently decided to leave was having a damaging effect on my life. Even people who love me (bless their hearts) have told me to stay in my job. Oh, you didn’t try hard enough.” This sort of thinking is what convinces people to stay in situations that are not serving them, not allowing them to be their best, or worse, hurting them (physically, emotionally, or spiritually). They think, “Oh, you just don’t feel like working anymore. Most people equate quitting to giving up. Other things that I have chosen to leave: multiple jobs, a few relationships, and one PhD program (more on that later). I don’t think quitting is such a bad word. It doesn’t seem like we’ve gotten this message. Spiritual teachers and wise people often advise letting go of situations that are no longer right for you. Some might call this “quitting.” Why has quitting gotten a bad rap? In my short life, I have left many jobs or situations. “You have to learn to get up from the table when love is no longer being served.” ~Nina Simone ![]()
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